tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7884536605563361749.post7215328417832329917..comments2023-06-20T04:17:56.718-07:00Comments on Loving Life As Mommy Of Two :): I'm at a loss...Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12640882356578241729noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7884536605563361749.post-40782473618537148732012-06-26T05:46:09.119-07:002012-06-26T05:46:09.119-07:00Thanks everyone.. I guess I could try getting some...Thanks everyone.. I guess I could try getting some more one on one time with her and seeing if that helps. She only tries it like once a week,so maybe it would help. Getting one on one time is hard, but I'll make it work.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12640882356578241729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7884536605563361749.post-36128662749821675382012-06-25T18:15:10.240-07:002012-06-25T18:15:10.240-07:00I understand the guilt of feeling like you failed ...I understand the guilt of feeling like you failed them. I didn't even last a whole day. I am trying to think if I were in that situation with Sam because it may happen eventually with her...<br /><br />There is absolutely nothing wrong with extended breast feeding. Children ween themselves from things when they ready. <br /><br />Personally, it sounds like she is curious andante wants that one on one time with you that Brentlry gets. Sounds like she may benefits by some sort of Grace and Mommy time like Brentley gets. And maybe let her try it. She may not even like it. But if you think it will stress you out too much, don't.MommyMayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14895017376704760161noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7884536605563361749.post-23380289193214454922012-06-25T05:58:34.213-07:002012-06-25T05:58:34.213-07:00I was going to suggest what Kayelynn's Mommy s...I was going to suggest what Kayelynn's Mommy said. Tell her that is how she ate when she was a baby and she is a big girl now. Stick to your guns. The one suffering the most is you. You did not fail her in anyway. You cannot beat yourself up about something you cannot change. Nobody is going to do everything right all the time. You are about the most responsible young moms I know. I don't know that I could of handled going to college while my kids were young. <br /><br />I understand your dilemma, I have always second guessed and analyzed things I did wondering if I had scarred them for life...lol. You are doing fine.momof4https://www.blogger.com/profile/18088994109247568657noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7884536605563361749.post-53541576883402780962012-06-24T23:22:45.590-07:002012-06-24T23:22:45.590-07:00I was going to suggest giving it to her in a cup.....I was going to suggest giving it to her in a cup... But then finished reading. I know she's too young to fully understand the reasoning of why she can't do it but Brentley can...<br /><br />Maybe try explaining it to her in the simplest of terms. Tell her that she got to try when she was a baby and now it is Brentleys turn. Tell her she can't eat that way, but maybe let her lay on you and have some "girl" time before she goes to bed every night so she gets to sill feel close?<br /><br />I don't know, sorry. :( I couldn't breastfeed Kayelynn so I know how you have regrets. And I also understand you saying you don't want to let her try in case she likes she and what not. <br /><br />Hope you figure it out soon!Meganhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10826449943400781434noreply@blogger.com